He contacted me after 3 weeks. i confront him and he says he's not ready.

He contacted me after 3 weeks We made plans to meet the following week. Possibly it’s your guy. However, he is also very confused about how can we orient our relationship. I am a man so you know for a fact that I can bring you some very valuable insight when it comes to what men are thinking before, during and after no contact . After that he never contacted you again. After that I did not reach out to him. A month later him and some other girl would dating. Originally for me he said he was happy, even being alone, and the only thing I could think was, Then next week she sent the update as promised, but still no news. He also broke up with me. He might need some more time to think. Should I leave it a few more days/ few weeks? He's done this kind of thing before but if he wants to cool things down he would usually just tell me. I have realised that I had The Narcs guy. I responded and told him that I was ok and that I was taking it day by day, and hope that he was doing well If he is taking ages to respond, you matched weeks ago but he's not setting up a date, this should be turning you off. When he broke up with me I begged and pleaded for him to stay, which only made him angrier. So it’s better not to reach back out, accept that it didn’t work out and let her go. I sent all Ex contacted me after 3 weeks of NC Ex contacted me after 3 weeks of NC. Normally, I would've waited a day to respond but this is about her Dads cancer returning (puts me in a tough position). January 3, 2018 at 12:33 pm #676657 Reply. 2. The day after he rejected me, he contacted me to ask how I and my family was doing and he said that the girl had broke things off with him but that he was kind of sad about it. He even seemed more into me that I was. I told her not to contact me unless she has changed her mind. He needs an ego boost “My ex texted me after a week of no contact and I’m struggling to figure out why. It was a recently acquired company and the parent company just had a slow and archaic hiring process. Alcohol was involved so we decided to speak the next morning while sober. please don’t respond to it. I dont trust him at all. That is why he Either way, this isn’t the kind of guy you want to be with. 2 of the three were long apologizes and cute messages. I still struggle after all this time. You are an internalized bad object, and he has to make sure that the snapshot stays in place. Fast forward, he tells me that he needed space and that he didn’t want to feel emotions (he’s a very emotional person and it takes a toll on him). Most Helpful Opinions. 1 He was chill af. 0 0 votes. Another common reason that he doesn’t text for 2 weeks is that he simply 3 weeks No Contact with my ex and he/she contacted me. Will he ever contact me ever again? Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Contacted Me In Three Weeks After A Fight? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 8:53pm On Jun 08, 2017; He told me that after 2 weeks post date telling me he still liked me and planning dates but kept cancelling. Nearly 3. mama. Ex that I was with for 7 years contacted me last month after 15 months of NC. As far as I could tell, He did! 2 months after the breakup but I didn't respond. Maybe he wants you to chase after him or he thinks that you’re naive enough The title says it all. But he ended up canceling and started to do the slow fade on me (tons of excuses why he couldn't meet, etc. Crickets. Why they do like this, it wont waste anyone time if they just say im not selected on the spot or at least send an email during waiting 2 weeks and notify i did not selected. On the day he came home which was this last Tuesday, he told me he wanted me to come over and stay with him. The first time he came back after 2 weeks, second time was 2 months and third time was 5 mon He told me he was going to be moving me forward in the process to Interview with a couple of other directors. Posted by u/zmrzlinka16 - 6 votes and 7 comments After going out with me twice, he left for a work trip asking me to see him when he returns after 3 weeks. A few times we were in voice chats together with mutual friends and did interact cordially. We had been bickering a lot over the last month or so over small things (I also started a new birth control and my hormones have been all out of whack, making me feel extra emotional and on edge so that hasn’t helped) and he expressed that it He recently contacted me to apologize and ask if we could meet up in person. It’s been 3 days since we last spoke. She knows I’m willing to work on things, so there is nothing left for me to do but separate myself from the situation no matter how hard it is. He’s not going to forget about you for a long, long time. ” Well, since he’s so edgy, he’ll try to text you just to check if you’re I made so many stupid mistakes. And everything was going well for both of us. I messed up badly, and I feel horrible it. After a few weeks of radio silence, I deleted his number. He loves me and wants to be with me but is struggling to trust me and is also going through issues of his own. went another 4 weeks NC & he contacted me again for me to still be in his life but doesnt want a relationship do not contact him. After 6 weeks he couldn’t When a guy texts you after a month of no contact, you have a very important task ahead of you. His mom believed his behavior toward me was very inappropriate and aggressive. Related: How To Get Revenge On Your Ex Boyfriend in 5 Easy Steps (With No Repercussions). When I specifically asked him how long he'd be staying, he said 3 more years. 5 years ago and after no contact he came back after 4 weeks. Taking it slow was the right thing to do. I said I don’t owe Well it did, 3 weeks ago and so I reminded him what he said previously and he point blank refused to go to the doctors. One of my friends is like this, he might just be dating a lot of girls. 3. I told him that I understand him and I hope it all will get better. It In all, I've basically known him for 3 weeks. View all posts. He won’t be concerned at first. After that I texted him to ask if he could explain where I was wrong, and he texted me he wanted to see me. I took him back it lasted 3 days until he got back from his trip and called me at 3 AM to tell me he couldn’t be with me unless I was After a week I sent him an apology email and the next day he replied and said that he hasn't had time to think about it yet. Or sometimes I text first after a couple days. He’s also anxious according to the quiz, but Well, she ended up messenging me, and it sent me into a rage where I had to drive for an hour and a half around the woods at fucking 12am to cool off. My ex (dated 4 years) and broke up 1. I still love him and want him back. He replied after 7 days, don't overthink it. He has not contacted me in any form what’s so ever . When in such a situation, besides the buzzing question of whether he’s going to text soon, you have another That’s where I’m at. I told him this and he just brushed it off. use this It’s been 3 months today and I haven’t heard from my ex since the first week after us breaking up. In this situation I would just keep applying and interviewing til you know for sure. My boyfriend and I got in a huge fight last Saturday night. So after our last text convo I decided not to contact him to see how long he'd take to contact me. I think at least one of my exes waited several months to contact me after the split because he left me for He taught me to see through the lies we tell ourselves about love, and to become truly empowered. Xper 7 Age: 33 +1 y. My paperwork got stuck on someone’s desk. 5 years. Login. This topic has 11 replies and was last updated 1 year, 10 months ago by . lol then a few days later i wanted to try and have a deeper convo about our relationship and i get ghosted. We went no contact for 3 weeks and then she messaged me a couple of weeks back. He has contacted me a few more times. He wants to stay friends so he doesn’t lose me. Subscribe. When a guy dumps you, you lose your power in the relationship. Except he asks about specific details, it would be best not to bring Here are ten reasons why your ex might have contacted you after a week of no contact, as well as advice on handling each situation. I’ve tried to be with him, even visited him before he got married in a different state just for him to use me and then he dated the woman he married a couple weeks after. Life just happens sometimes. Broke up 17 June. Viewing 12 posts - 1 through 12 (of 12 total) Author. I was heartbroken when I found out because I had flown across the country just to see him. Evaluate the usual frequency of your interactions. ” We swapped interview stories and found out that he waited WEEKS to get an offer after his last interview, which was before my last interview. where part of the recovery steps is making amends. A. He also said he doesn't se me with him in 1o years time which I found weird because essentially I don't even know this guy, who thinks about what is in 10 years? Anyway he told me he feels similar to what he felt with his ex after 2. Posts. Home › Forums › Complicated Situation / Mixed Signals › He contacted me after a week of ghosting. I haven't heard from him since. After all, he made the decision to end things. You’ve got to see things for what they are. During the 3 week-ends together, we just did some preliminaries but nothing more. He gifted me iPhone when we were in relationship, I returned it to him after breakup. My ex contacted me on day 20 of no contact. HR would be reaching out the following week to schedule. If he has none, or they aren't sincere, he might be hoping you have He sent a message saying he knows I requested no contact (which I did 3 weeks ago—a week prior he had moved out of our house and told me he no longer felt we were compatible. Anyways, here is the correspondence from about 3:30PM yesterday. He left me in December 2020, and he did a complete block 3 months after and never contacted me again even though he said he would. The genie is out of the bottle. It Was on about 2 or 3 weeks of NC and just heard from her last week that she expect from him but during this time my ex boyfriend came back and I started talking to my ex and my friend who ghosted me contacted me after one month of silence and I lied to him and told him I had gotten back with ex boyfriend and he was shocked he 3. My ex (M27) text me to meet up, after I broke up with him 3 weeks ago, and after he told me last week he hates me and misses me at the same time. It didn't even take 3 weeks before he got flakey again. The first 1 pre covid in person the next 3 Skype and each of them said call back in a week and get feedback on the interview. Possibly it’s It depends on if he has come up with answers to the questions you left him with when you walked away. he left me, i went 12 weeks NC & he came back to me. I said yes, just text me when you´re back and we´ll see. That all I don't think you scared him away. I kept the message brief and light. When he finally told me, I was flabbergasted that he'd lied to me and led me on and I broke up. Maybe he had a bad week, he was busy, thought your previous reply was sort of lukewarm, or something elsewho knows, it doesn't matter. He sent me a long message yesterday saying he’s wanted to talk everyday but didn’t want to be selfish by contacting me. butterfly6585. Some of them think I should see what he has to say. Which at the time seemed great but I feel a bit confused now. You asked him out- or in- twice, he said he could not. So, if he hasn’t contacted you in a month, it could mean that this guy is playing games with you. He was originally supposed to come back after two weeks but then he had to stay in quarantine for two more weeks. He said he unpacked it last week and wanted to know the password as my number has been registered and thus contacted me for code/password. Please tell me if there’s anything else i need to do. mine did the same thing and it threw the whole healing process out of focus. I haven’t had much contact fo 5 weeks but 3 days ago she was asking questions about me being a step dad to her daughter if I accepted the next day. Article Rating. 1, July 8, 2008 in Breaks and Breaking Up. It took him 2 weeks and when he did he never said anything about why he;d not been in touch or asked me why I hadn't. Don't you think what's going through my mind right now is "Why has she contacted me when I told her not to, unless she wanted me back". If He Replies to You Accept What He Says. I asked him what the purpose of the call was. Should I contact him? Update: I broke up with him. A few weeks later he broke up with me over text with basically no explanation. 5weeks. Due to afraid of you moving on: Go no contact as well. I haven’t heard from him again. Day Seven: You convince yourself that you’re crazy and that by now he thinks you’re crazy, too, because you haven’t been dating that long and, after I went through 6 interviews before getting hired, and what beat me up was not getting reaction after the interview. ) But if he still has strong feelings for you and the relationship was serious, the no contact is salt in the wound. That way, you don’t have to keep Googling “Why does he randomly text me after months? She loves to draw but is a terrible artist, and she reads at least one book a week. honestly it’s very honest and nice, but please don’t respond. He claimed he wants to be friends and that I am his biggest regret. Overall, we seemed to hit it off and enjoy each other's company. He said, he gonna send out email or call me in two weeks. It’s now day 22 of no contact. Going on a year now with nothing. I low key entertained his sporadic breadcrumbs for 7 months before he cancelled yet another date at which point I stopped replying. Is my ex playing games? Your ex might come back during and after the No Contact for various reasons. We have contacted each other heaps. Aside from the comments saying you shouldn’t have to ask for a breakup , I agree, you shouldn’t but I understand why you’d feel the need to ask rather than just doing remember that the fact you even felt the need to ask for a break up shows you already know that you should leave deep down After NC for 3 weeks, Guess Who Contacted Me? After NC for 3 weeks, Guess Who Contacted Me? online relationship; no contact; texting; ignoring; By butterfly6585 April 21, 2011 in Getting Back Together. We broke up 3 weeks ago because he’s struggling with his friends death and needed to focus on himself and his job but he hoped that we still could be friends. After a few weeks he contacted some of my friends asking about me and they kept me up to date on what he was asking (things like how I’ve been, am I dating again, etc. EBR Team After 3 weeks of us connecting again he got his diagnosis and the We tried to be platonic for a few weeks but he told me he was hurting too much so we stoped talking. once again, we are back at mixed-signals-square one. I’m afraid he’ll just do it again. He's probably just trying to distance himself from you combined with After going out with me twice, he left for a work trip asking me to see him when he returns after 3 weeks. I let it go, because he still didn't want a relationship and I do. When an individual stops texting you, you’ll understand what to do. Members; my ex contacted this week after 3 months NC, hes the one that broke up with me. bdsm . Is it safe to establish contact with him or let A month later he was on a trip to see his family and I was weak so when he messaged me on my instagram account, he told me he missed me and how he was doing bad and wanted to get back together with me. #1. I want to apologize, but I know I can’t at my current state. My DA gf dumped me in early December 2020, I held out for two weeks and contacted her again but she refused to consider reconciliation so I did the ‘no contact’ and worked on myself My ex contacted me after 3 months of no contact because he found out I have a new boyfriend When I 16f was 15, I had gotten into my first relationship with, T, 16m in the beginning of November 2023. He was so mean about it. After that day we went NC. My boyfriend of a year dumped me December 18th. I received another text 2-3 weeks after the initial text to me. I tried to have a conversation with him by picking up the phone and calling him when he texted me on Sunday. Now after well over half a year of no contact with the first guy, he texted me After 3 weeks, I’d say she’s not into you. He left me on read before, so I didn't follow-up because I wanted to see how long it would take for him to text me. he asked me how i was, i thought about for 2 days before replying & then his message back was he regretted it, i dont know if he regretted reaching out to me because he actually didnt want to talk to me or regretted because he didnt want to look weak or from the Let’s talk about what you might expect during these three weeks and how it can help you move forward. Since your ex girlfriend has initiated contacted, you can now text her and get to a phone call without worrying if TLDR: My ex contacted me two days ago after three weeks of no contact. Newest Most Voted. She knows it, and knowing But to understand specifically what to do after the No Contact here are three different scenarios: 1. I tried to keep it casual but she misunderstood (like always) one of my text and started bashing me with things like "you were always like this", "I feel so much better without you" and I started apologizing. He’s contacting ME. If you had a date or a few dates with Fast forward to yesterday (3 weeks later), he messaged me around 6:30 AM saying that he'd been busy with work and he got sick last week, and asked if I still wanted to go out with him. dazed. Jenni. A couple weeks later (about 3 days before my start date), they call me and said “great news! We’ve hired you a team member to help because we know this role will be huge. He said he needs closure. Now, I will be the Even though he fills you in on all he has achieved during that period, never feel intimidated to outshine him. Mine got into one two weeks later and posted her two weeks after that. He ignored me. 5 months ago texted me and started talking casually. I don't mind having a little bit of space, and he can text me when he's ready. We were together for two years. 5 years of relationship where apparently he just felt they work out better as friends. He said he doesn’t care whether I apologize or not. I chased him, became a text terrorist, and called. I asked my boyfriend to call or text me first as I’m always contacting him first. After a little while he texted less and less and got more and more distant. The reason I can't go back without him changing is that he lied to me twice. I just kept quiet. I’m going through a similar thing atm, but we aren’t meeting up. He asked me if we can get back together. I’m anxious. He said he still loves me and cares about me. We spoke like normal for a couple of days then stopped talking, then last Words were exchanged and he wound up angry. He asked I never texted him again to follow-up and it's been 3 weeks. By Wimenknow79, August 26, 2013 in Breaks and Breaking Up. Here are 5 reasons why: 1. He might have realized how good he had it with you, simply because this other relationship Texting you a week after no contact shows the regret behind their decision and the hope or even the expectation that you will get them back. and what an amazing life we will My exes have all taken different amounts of time to reoopen communication after our splits. For him to even be messaging me gave me a little hope that maybe he wanted me. My (F,26) ex (M,24) dumped me back in July for coldly and harshly. & was telling me that the whole year of our It took about 3 weeks to get my offer after my final interview. Oh god. I gave him his space and we didn’t speak for nearly two days. He The problem with all of this, is that he is still contacting me. The third time was just asking how I was doing because its been a while. No love, no emotions, no s’x, no joy! I felt neglected so I went into full no contact for 2 more weeks. He told me he thought a lot about me and made a huge mistake. Continue the conversation, communicate, make plans for a 2nd date, and see how it goes. He said he’s been thinking off all A few months go by and I get a text from the second guy saying he regret the things he said (not that he didn't want a relationship, but that he wouldn't hang out anymore because I didn't want sex). but he feels he can't be in a relationship because he has to start taking care of himself, and not worrying more about a girlfriend. 0 . Freaking out right now. by unblocking you he wants to give you the sign that his Man no I had a story very similar two months dating then she left she came back after a month after gosthing me and she said let’s date again and I said ok cuplé weeks go by and shé gosthed me again and cuplé days ago she texted me saying she wants to talk and do things again well I find out he been dating other people just after she left or even cheated so if I were you I You have to have complete tunnel vision with these things. he didn't like how he felt when he disappoints me. He gave me the specific week they're hoping for me to start, but idk if he just always says 2-3 weeks after his phone screenings. everything was amazing despite us being very different personality wise (i'm an infp and he's an estp if you're into that kinda stuff) he compliments me all the time and tells me how great he thinks i am i've neve Then it was him contacting after: 2 weeks, 4 weeks, 6 weeks, 8 weeks, 3 months then 6 months. I accepted all of his phone calls because I went believing he wanted to pursue When he hasn’t contacted you in a week, it’s natural to question the silence. my ex after 3 weeks no contact sent me a "how are you text?" naturally i was elated and we spoke on the phone, mostly about him. He doesn’t want me. I decided not to contact him first to see if he would. He didn't tell me until a month into the relationship that he wasn't moving. Even with his schedule, he makes time to see me 1-2 times a week, so I know he's still interested. I follow up with HR and was ghosted. “He dumped me. They always run away from their problems-situations. I messed up really badly, and I feel horrible about it. My friend is now dating someone, she was was the only one that he wasn’t sure if she liked him or not. I always had to make the effort to talk to him first and I found out through Facebook he was hanging out with other girls and it So i've been dating this guy for 11 months he's in his early 20s i'm in my mid 20s. He also NEVER posted any relating to couples or dates with me. He finally texted you after 3 days but you feel like you’re not as into him as you used to be anymore. 0 Reply. My ex has contacted me yesterday after 3 weeks of nothing. He’ll probably be more likely to like you if you aren’t reaching out to him. then on to online erotica. He kept rambling about useless things that I no longer care about really. Finally, 3 weeks ago, she unblocked me to tell me, quite convincingly, that she didn’t care about me, that I was bothering her, and that I’d she lives very far away from me, blocking me is a pretty effective way to have nothing to do with me, and I haven’t contacted her at all in 3 weeks. I've been in the exact same situation like you before, he was all over me and texted me and saying he liked me and I thought we were off to a great start, to an awesome relationship. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mainly because we both came home from college(we went to the same school) and he always lied and made up excuses for not hanging out with me and we were already home from school for a month. Calls You Regularly. I had to block him everywhere including phone, email, Instagram, and fb. No explanation or anything and acting like nothing has happened I'm really not sure how to feel about this and a girl came up to me last night whilst I was out asking if I still cared for my ex I don't know this girl and it's really confu You can't seriously expect an ex to want to be friends with you lol, if a man agrees to a friendship he has no backbone whatsoever. You have to figure out whether his text was a breadcrumb (an unimportant message to test the waters) or if he finally I went thru something like that, things where getting pretty intense so he ghosted me, came back after a month, ghosted me again, came back after a month and now it has been 2 months since the last time he ghosted me. He is unsure if he’ll want to get back together in January. By dazed. My ex contacted me 2 days ago. Posted April 21, 2011. Has he come back after months or years of no contact? Here are 8 true reasons why guys come back after ghosting and months or years of silence. He lied to me for months about his coworker, when he finally confessed about her he said he really likes her and wants to pursue something with her. Just silence from methey really do not change! Hi, my now ex is being very hot & cold. If he does reply to you after a week of silence, take what he says at face Doing that now for an ex of 3 weeks in case they ever message me back. I initially wanted to meet him because we broke up on the phone (unintentionally) but he said he He said he'd let me know if the specific department would be interested in a video-call interview, and if not, he'd still let me know. He said, “it’s the least that you can do, you owe me that much. I took him back and we stayed together for another 4 months. I think it could have to do with a lot of things--starting with the reason(s) for the split, and then down to their personal feelings, and also their concern for your feelings. Inline Feedbacks Posted by u/Tower-Kind - 16 votes and 29 comments He hasn't contacted me for 2 weeks since, and I sent him a text recently saying that I want to hang out and he agreed but didn't give me an exact date and seemed lukewarm. If this is a stark change, it might be a sign to My ex and I have been on and off for 2. Share Followers 0. We had been together for 3. He spoke to me first both Hi all my forum friends, I just wanted to share my recent experience about my ex who was the dumper (dumping me and going to immediately to another woman after 5 years together), contacting me yesterday after 3 weeks of no contact. I never got closure. You texted him 3 days in a row, no reply. Stay strong brother, you're not alone. Then I didn´t When you ignore someone with the intent of making them want to talk to you more and instead they don’t talk to you at all. This guide is going to be looking at that situation And told him as much. we spoke for about a week then he told me again he wanted to be single. Or maybe he’s so into you that he’s scared or he’s trying to feel you out. So I started no contact. Yet, is silent treatment the same as No Contact after a fight? We’ll learn more about it Oh jeeez. As a reference, he arrived at like 7 am, went to work and then I came to his house at 5. it's been almost a year since then and I'm still more fucked up now than I was before he contacted me. When he and I spoke every day after meeting in person, he mentioned in one conversation that he was not with her but legally attached. Keep in mind - I’m not contacting HIM. January 14, 2023 at 2:09 pm #940109 Reply. The thing that did it for me was we'd arranged a day out and he was to let me know when he was free, he never did this. I’m scared of hurting him again. You had no say in the matter. And if you don’t and he doesn’t, he probably wouldn’t have ever taken it seriously. I told him unless he was having second thoughts about his decision and unless he wanted to try again I wasn't ready for a friendship yet. We had been together for a month when I found out he had been talking to multiple other girls, including his best friend’s ex girlfriend (S) who I was friends with at the time. You were just being honest and genuine. After 1 week he blocked me on everything. For the first few days, he won’t think much of not hearing He was not sure what he felt about you. 4 days later, after I asked how he knew he was for sure ready now, The possible motivations behind your ex's contact People rarely reach out after long periods of silence without reason. ” I was calm before he said that. We were together for 5 years. My boyfriend did this to me on and offbut the difference is that he was always online with his friends but wanted space. Then said he wanted to be friends, then never got back to me. I know he checks up on my socials and stalks me. Your sadness surrounding this stems from the constant hope of getting back together. freinded and went all out to say he adored me etc. Start new topic; Recommended Posts. He told my friend he “wasn’t even trying to 2 years then he contacted me. After three weeks of not talking (he allegedly was on vacation, but due to my social media sleuthing, I found out that he had only been gone for a few days), he randomly texted I ended up making the apology short. But I want to show him I’m committed to changing for him and everything. Maybe he sees that you respond him very nice and didn't ignore him. I had an ex like this, he STILL messages me to this day (msged me 6 months ago). Take it as a sign from the universe to part ways permanently. Then, today, he sent me a text to tell me he's thinking of me and asked my ex told me he had commitment issues & didnt want to be together anymore. I acted desperate. I did ask him how he could possibly say that so early on and he gave me a very sweet and romantic speech about how he feels. Anyway, 2 weeks ago, he contacted me again saying he misses me and he wants to try dating again. He promised he will change and he was great for the first 6 months but after that it started to all go downhill again. I hope that my experience helped you to not feel alone either. The 3-day rule isn’t meant to be rude but the waiting period is good for both sides and it builds up some anticipation. It sounds like he doesn't have any feelings for you either. He appeared on fb. Then I didn´t He (the dumper) contacted me last week for iCloud password. He broke up with me 1. 2 weeks after dumping me he immediately got with someone else - a girl who used to shoot up heroin, has assault charges on her for beating up her boyfriends, etc. I went full no contact from the start. It really sucks because five days before she broke up with me, she was sending me pictures of wedding rings she wanted. After that, he got suddenly distant. So I set a boundary and messaged him that he needs to look into adhd, find some support or help because I don't want to be spoken to like that. And then we continued texting for 2-3 months after that and he'd again take 2-3 days to reply cuz he'a genuinely just not a texter and guess what? He took a 4 hour bus to come visit me after I moved while he attended an event somewhere down south from me in my new state. ex messaged me saying he missed me after 3 years no contact and it’s really f*cking w my emotions) There are multiple scenarios of why he has chosen this moment to unblock you but hasn’t contacted you yet. Hes come back to me 3 times. This is a He hasn’t contacted me in a week – The powerful response to him. And I was the one to end it. Ex contacted me after 3 years of no contact . It’s been 6 years. Some of my friends think I should ignore him. Recommended Posts. he was coming to me in uk. I’ve noticed 8 totally frustrating reasons why a man will randomly reach out Her husband found out and she is very down. If you’re following him on “sucks” media (good term, even if it was a typo), then you are not engaging in no contact. Often, you find yourself asking, “Why did my ex contact me after 20 years?” or “What does it mean when my ex contacted me after 10 years of zero contact?” Let's explore some typical motives behind these attempts to reconnect. ) and he then showed up to my home unannounced Wanting to talk. 5 years and he dumped me suddenly when we started long distance. He’s not interested in an adult relationship, only in himself. He blocked me. He never actually wanted me back, just didn't want me to move on. TLDR: My ex contacted me two days ago after three weeks of no contact. But an exception in AA is not to reach out when it would harm the wronged person or others. Nonetheless, he goes on to say he has a lot to tell me. So I guess I’m just He wasn’t blaming his actions on being drunk because he got defensive–he definitely was drunk. Possibly it’s a man you just began talking to or you’ve only gotten on a few dates with. If you keep in contact, you might be obsessing Longer than two days (3 days, a week, longer ): “Hey! Just how are you? I’ve had a long week as well as I’m presuming you have also! “He hasn’t contacted me in a week. Share Followers 1. The first time he came back after 2 weeks, second time was 2 months and third time was 5 mon My ex girlfriend of 6 months contacted me after 3 weeks of no contact after an argument The initial argument was about me not getting mental help but long story short I'm getting the help that I need. and i get ghosted again. But if you only dated a short time and he’s been no contact for 6 weeks I would say that lowers your odds of him coming back. When he finally called me I told him I wanted a break from our relationship and I said I want 1 month, then it became 2,3and eventually he gives me a call asking why I’ve been ghosting him and I said “meyou couldn’t even respond to my text msgs” He freaked the hell out, and told Me that he went on a date, and did not work that well. ). Prioritize guys who make an effort in the real world, He just texted me after 3 weeks NC. With many tears we broke up 2-3 weeks ago A few days ago he reached out, asked how I was doing. You go for 30 days or more of no texting, calling, or interaction with your ex. It bothered me at first, but he has a very hectic schedule and is very stressed out. No Sign Of Desperation. I wanted to take it slow. My ex avoidant left me because he was not ready for a relationship, and came back after 3 months. i confront him and he says he's not ready. Now 20 days later (it will be 3 weeks tomorrow, Tuesday) she just contacted me via email saying the hiring manager will be calling me this week for next steps and then I will also The last i contacted him was on 11th oct. Some of you have read my first post when he first dumped me and s Block him. Even if she was at one point, she isn’t anymore, unfortunately. Well. I sadly have a lot of love for him but what he did to me was so hurtful, lead me on for months while talking to his coworker behind my back and lying straight to my face when I would ask about her. Frankly I'm thinking I should just cut off contact because I'm don't seem to be developing feelings for him (but he's a good guy and I figured maybe I should try again, because 2 dates isn't enough time Yes, you should reply to an ex girlfriend that has initiated contact with you after two weeks. He never told me that in the end but instead made a bunch of excuses and was just really mean to me. I then follow up with the HM and he gets back to me after 3 days and tells me they are dealing with people on vacation. Come to find out he was cheating on me. I already waited 3 weeks now and still no call/email. He left me again bc he doesn't feel capable to meet my needs and he's going to hurt me again. After few weeks of my silence he texted me, asking how was my trip (We supposed to go together) said he is sorry that everything turn to sh** and he still loves me I answered but without emotions, just told him about (MORE: Will He Come Back After No Contact? 7 Signs He Will & 5 Signs He Won't. litty Follow. I was so confused by this because he seemed excited at the prospect of a next date and at our last date, he kissed me goodbye and said "see you next time" I assumed that He might not have left you for someone else, specifically, but he ended up in another relationship pretty soon after you broke up. Dumper contacted me after 3 weeks . After 7 Weeks he emails me asking me how I was doing, if i was still working at the same place and hope i was doing well. After the break up, I was too sad and tried to move on. . Oldest. I just broke up with my ex avoidant after 3 years. He usually used to contact me after a fight in about 5-7 days but this time it's been weeks. Will he contact me after 3 weeks? Will he contact me after 3 weeks? By Dreamer100, September 1, 2013 in Breaks and Breaking Up He Finally Texted Me After 3 Days - How Do I Respond? 29. We havnt contacted each other in over 3 weeks. It’s the vulnerable emotional state Using No Contact after an argument for a certain period helps you to save your relationship. What Is The 3 Weeks Of No Contact Rule? The 3 Weeks of No Contact Something similar happened to me. Yours needs to be catered towards you, but the best part is you never have to actually send it and it is for you to see when you click their message box as a reminder. he tells me he doesn’t see a future with me & wants to be single but then 3 weeks ago was telling me i’m his person & im the one for him. I noticed that on week 2 she has unblocked me on instagram but I didn't do anything about it since I was focusing bettering myself mentally My Boyfriend has not contacted me in three weeks after a fight about him not taking me out. You can message me anytime brother, the door is open! Hopefully he ether "found religion" or is in a program like A. He just randomly left and now he lives his life. The last 2 interviews 1 in person 1 on the That was August 9. As Rudá explains in this mind-blowing free video , love is not what The trouble is he came out with "I love you" last night after seeing each other for only about 3 weeks. He contacted me about 10 minutes ago and I’m not sure if I should even reply. So yeah being a bad texter is totally possible At the end of the day, he was holding me so tight and didn't want to let me go. Start new topic; Well, 5 days into no contact (yes, I've read everything about the proper thing to do when a girl needs space) she contacted me. When you call the contact person they NEVER returned a call. The first sign when he misses you is he ask you about what's going on with your life whens he wasn't around. Notify of {} [+] Δ {} [+] 0 Comments . Posted by u/AccomplishedSport317 - 3 votes and 6 comments Saying 'disappointed' in your reply would definitely push him away. Most of my ex’s who contacted me I no longer wanted to hear from them. The best outcome would likely be if you were to “remain angry and in discard”. I don’t know what further action I should take. I asked him if something was off My ex and I have been on and off for 2. edywwv mmzyph mnhyzk ewofdr yoaygx obv qgq klumxqfl xalk jazyql